When you get into a relationship it can be fun and exciting, especially if it is new. You want to tell the world about it and are excited to announce it to your friends and family. But with that announcement, everyone feels the need to give their advice and opinions, even if they are not wanted. People will really invest their time into your relationship.
Its YOUR Relationship
Don’t get me wrong, it is nice that people care about you and your relationship and want to make sure you are happy. But there are those people who spend too much time and effort in your relationship. They think they know exactly what you want and need, like you cannot decide that for yourself and that is not okay.
It is your relationship. A relationship is between two people, NOT a group of people.
Do Not Let Others Opinions Stand In Your Way
People will say things about your relationship or about your significant other that are not true, or they are making assumptions about the other person. Do not listen to their negative talk and take it with a grain of salt. Only you know that person for who they truly are. The people around you are either trying to sabotage your relationship or protect you from what they think about that person.
Only You Two Know What Is Best For Your Relationship
Communication is key. Only you and your partner know what is best for your relationship. Constantly keep them updated on your life, how you are feeling and what you need. This will make your relationship stronger.
Your relationship is yours. It is between you and your partner. Only you know what is best for the two of you. Listen to one another and do not let other people’s opinions ruin your relationship or keep you from being together. Yes, it can be hard not having support from other people, but you need to do what is best for you and what makes you the happiest. Yours and your partner’s happiness should be your number one priority.
