Guys in their early 20’s will take whatever they can get. It seems that if you are a nice, self respecting, loving and caring girl, it is almost impossible to get a good guy and it seems that guys are just not attracted to girls like you. Let me tell you, that is not the case.
They Take Whatever They Can Get
Guys do not want to have to put in very much work, so they will take whatever they can get. If a girl who doesn’t respect herself, dresses inappropriately and does not care about other people’s feelings, or her own and is going to throw herself at any guy she sees, then guys will take it.
They want whatever is easy, so if a girl is easy, guys will take it with no question. But, if you respect yourself and have standards, you are harder for guys to get and they know that they will actually have to put in some effort to get you.
Take The High Road
Have self confidence and be secure in yourself. Do not lower your standards or self esteem just for a guy. You have so much worth and if a guy cannot see that and value you, then he is not worth it.
Continue to be your best self. Focus on your career, your school work, self care and your mental health. You are most important. Do not make drastic changes in any way just to be with a guy. The right one will love you for every part of you. Do not settle. Take the high road and be the girl who knows who she is and is confident just as she is, because that is what is most attractive.
Be The One That’s Hard To Get
Just because you do not have guys falling at your feet does not mean you aren’t attractive or worthy of dating. It means that you have standards. Be the girl that is hard to get. Make guys put in the effort and work to be with you. Let them know that you have high expectations and make them work for them.
As I like to say “make them sweat”
Don’t be afraid to make them work for what they want and be the girl that they want. Give them anxiety, make them afraid to lose you, make them sweat.
Be The Girl That’s Marriage Material
PLEASE do NOT be the girl to go out with any guy that will give her attention. Have high standards. Make sure that they treat you with total respect and cherish you and treat you like a queen. You are deserving of someone who treats you right.
Stop settling for these douche bag boys who do not know what they want and do not know how to be in a committed relationship. You are deserving of a man who knows what he wants in life and wants to have you be a part of it.
